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Parents Help Children Get Ready For Kindergarten

How can you help your child get ready for kindergarten?  Barbara Allisen has the answer.  I had a chance to chat with Barbara, a kindergarten teacher, author, and speaker.  She helps parents and care givers support children ages 0-6 years old to be powerful learners.

We had a wonderful conversation about how kids can get ready for kindergarten, and I came home with an autographed copy of her book, 123 Kindergarten.  Thank you, Barbara, for your generosity!

What Does It Take To Be Ready For Kindergarten?

It turns out that being ready for kindergarten is not about knowing your letters and numbers.  It is about inspiring a love of learning, curiosity, and confidence in our children.  The heavy push for academics and scholarly settings for preschool may have some fans, but remember that success and being ready for kindergarten, and then eventually college, is most closely correlated with a love of learning, knowing how to learn, and confidence in their ability to learn.

In her book, Barbara talks about self-help skills and emotional readiness, communication skills and language readiness, social skills, physical development, and academic readiness.  There is quite a bit involved in being ready for kindergarten.

Barbara has a host of resources to help parents help children to be ready for kindergarten.  Her website is 123Kindergarten.com, and every day on her blog, she posts a “Play of the Day”.  For those of us (meaning me) who are play-challenged, the “Play of the Day” is a great head start.  She also has a Radio Show on Mondays at noon Eastern called “Learn and Play with Mrs. A” on the Rockstar Radio Network.

I recorded a short video with Barbara so you can get a sense of her passion and spirit.  She wears her mission on her sleeve, literally.  Well, actually it’s not on her sleeve, but on her clothing.  You will see ABCs and 123s on her apparel because she is a living, breathing testament to success and being ready for kindergarten.  Those letters and numbers are also an invitation to parents to engage her in conversation about this topic which is so important to her.  She wants every child to succeed and is giving parents and care givers the tools to support them.

The tools are there for you.  Give your children what they need to be ready for kindergarten.

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Entrepreneur Moms Meet Up

One of the best things about attending professional conferences is meeting great people.  I realize that moms meet up with many different people, but when two entrepreneurial moms meet up, magic happens.
One amazing mom entrepreneur is Martha Sanchez, radio personality and speaker.  Her radio show, KnowTheRadioShow.com, is on Tuesday at 7:00 pm Eastern, and she is committed to empowering women one topic at a time.

Martha has had a wide variety of guests on her show.  She covers many different business topics, and she also touches on other aspects of a mom’s busy life, including fitness and life balance.  She specializes in taking mommies to moguls, helping moms to experience their creative power and financial independence by taking the passion in their hearts by taking it to the market place.  She makes sure that moms meet up with other moms to support their dreams.

When Entrepreneur Moms Meet Up, What Do They Do?

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The first thing Martha and I did was exchange business cards.  We were both coming back from a break, and I overheard her talking about her business, her radio show, and her work to empower moms.  I knew that she was someone I wanted to know more about.  The break was just about over, and we were being called back into the meeting room to take our seats.  I wanted to make sure I didn’t lose track of her among 400 other people.  I approached her and asked for her business card.  This way I knew that even if we didn’t get to connect at the event, I could reach out to her afterward.

Acknowledge Each Other

The next day of the conference, I saw her and figured it was a good idea that us moms meet up.  I found her during a break and quickly struck up a conversation.  I made sure I acknowledged her.  We were both entrepreneurs following our passion and purpose.  We were both moms helping moms.  How could I not acknowledge her?  She received that gracefully.  Then she said she liked my outfit.  It felt synergistic to be in the presence of a confident, purpose-driven, like-minded person.

Help Each Other

Knowing that my clients appreciate resources like Martha and her radio show, I quickly recorded a video interview with her.  With the video posted on my blog and YouTube channel, we both benefit.  Who knows what other opportunities there may be to work together and share our messages to a broader audience.

Exciting things happen when moms meet up, especially when they have a lot in common.  If you would like to know more about how being an entrepreneur helps you be more present for your children, please fill in the box in the upper right of this page.

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One of My Recommended Parenting Websites - Parenting 2.0

I was searching for parenting websites when I discovered the LinkedIn Parenting 2.0 Group.  When the group’s name flashed up as a search result, it resonated with me instantly and piqued my curiosity.  I clicked over to see what the top ranked parenting group on LinkedIn was all about.
Not only were they an active online community, but I was excited to find that they were also having a conference, Parenting 2.0 Talks, in San Diego.  I wanted to be a part of it.  I reached out to my contracts to put me in touch with Parenting 2.0.org’s Founder, Marlaine Cover also known as Mama Marlaine.
In our first conversation, we hit it off.  We talked about the cacophony of life skills educators and parenting websites that were so valuable but yet unheard.  We hoped to find a way for educators to link arms to reach people more effectively with the resources and skills they needed and wanted for raising the next generation.
When we met for Parenting 2.0 Talks, it was eye-opening.  I was amazed to learn from many powerful, passionate life-skills educators who were both united by mission and vision yet uniquely equipped and specialized.  I was delighted to share my teachings with them as well.  We all spoke the same language of transforming the world through the advancement of life skills in our homes and communities.

One Among Many Parenting Websites

When I founded Present Parent Training, I was the only one in my circle, in my entire network, teaching empathy, non-judgment, non-violent communication, prosperity consciousness, life skills, and life mastery.  While I am still the only one that does it in my voice, in my style, and based on my experience, I now know that I am not alone in wanting to change the world, starting with myself and my kids.  I am one among many parenting websites who are uniquely sharing the same vision.
Parenting 2.0’s humanitarian arm is the Global Presence, a growing community of not just educators, but everyone who wants to make a difference in the life of a child.  I am honored to be a Founding Member of this beautiful organization.  If you are serious about equipping kids with the life skills they need to succeed, then take the Global Presence Pledge.
The Global Presence Pledge:
I pledge to be the change I wish to see in the world.
I pledge to celebrate diversity and nurture community.
I pledge to think globally and serve locally.
I pledge to nurture peace in homes and between nations.
I pledge patience and optimism with myself and others as we learn to thrive individually and commune optimally.
I pledge to own my role in raising future generations.
I pledge to respect the fragility and dignity of my planetary home.
I pledge to honor the divine wisdom of myself and others.
I pledge to support the Global Presence Community in thought, word and deed.
I pledge humility in my role as a member of The Global Presence.
I pledge gratitude for the opportunity to link arms with others in service to humanity.

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Kids LA Marathon and Communicating with Children about Winning

About the Kids LA Marathon

Our eight year-old son ran in the annual Rod Dixon’s KidsMarathon at Dodger Stadium along with 5,000 other Los Angeles Unified School District elementary students.  He won!  So did the 5,000 other students.  The theme was “Finishing is winning.  Winning is finishing.”
The event was a one mile run.  Hey, we were not about to subject these 2^nd, 3^rd and 4^th graders to anything like next week’s LA Marathon.  How does one mile equal a marathon?  All week, they have been running at their home schools, racking up over 25 miles, and this was their final mile out of the 26.2.  It was run in grand style, covered by network news, and celebrated with cheers, beautiful replica medals, and goodie bags.

Communicating with Children About Winning

My primary intention was for my son to practice being a good sport, and secondly, to have fun.  Then, it struck me.  What would it mean to him, or to me, if he actually won? What parent wouldn’t want their child to win the Kids LA Marathon?
I took a minute to assess whether my son actually had a chance of winning.  He is an excellent runner.  His coach told me that she has to tell him to stop running because he enjoys it so much.  He says he is one of the fastest runners at school.
On the way to the race, I entertained thoughts of him leading the pack and crossing the tape.  That was until we hit four lanes of bumper to bumper traffic entering the stadium.  The masses of people jarred me back to reality.  We parked.  Then checked in.  Then we waited.
We decided to interview our young athletes.  They were excited.  We wanted to plant that seed and introduce the possibility of winning.  We asked them what their strategy was for winning.  At that point, the coach interrupted with “Finishing is winning.  Winning is finishing.”  We planted another seed and asked if they were going to finish strong.  Yes!  We asked if they would help their teammates finish strong together.  Yes!  We asked if they would do their best.  Yes!  They were all smiles.  They were ready.
As the students were lining up at the starting line, track and field champions greeted and encouraged them.  The opening ceremony was thrilling.  Finally the first wave of students, fourth graders, took their marks.  Then, the race was on, and a flood of a thousand kids in their white Kids LA Marathon shirts took off.  It felt like the biggest race of the year.

Winning Phrases

The first kids crossed the finish line.  They were really amazing.  I yelled out, "You're awesome!"  Then I caught myself.  In the heat of the moment, evaluative praise had leaked from my lips.  That was not how I wanted to be communicating with children.
I became conscious and chose my words deliberately.  Instead of rewarding them with evaluative praise like "good job," "you're such a good runner," or "I'm proud of you," I chose phrases like:

• "That was so fast!"
• "That took a lot of power!"
• "You did it!"
• "Congratulations!"
• "Yay!" "Wow!"  "Woohoo!"

Communicating with children this way builds internal motivation.  It helps children reflect on their own accomplishments, what it took to achieve what they did, and what their accomplishments and efforts mean to them.  Contrast that with praise (verbal doggie biscuits) that has kids looking externally to their parents or coaches for validation that they did well, that they are good enough.  Even though the parents around me chuckled and gave me quizzical looks when I said the first two phrases, I didn't care.  I knew I was speaking the language of winners.

I hope this article about the Kids LA Marathon and Communicating with Children about winning was helpful to you.

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